I am a hood hippie nerd coffee lover; I am solo polyamorous. I am not a unicorn! I do not engage in anything with hierarchy vetos or rule. BDSM isn't just a lifestyle for me, it's who I am, not just bedroom fun. I'm also, Megasexual: A sexual orientation generally characterized by a person's lack of emotional connection to other people unless or until they have formed a strong sexual connection with them first.
I wholeheartedly hate small talk. It makes my nervous system glitch out 🤣🤣. I wholeheartedly hate passive aggressive communication, this also makes my nervous system glitch out!!
I love being outdoors, hiking, parks, beaches, concerts, glamping-ish, brunches, festivals. I love to read, crochet, Karaoke, quality time with my village. I love being on the dance floor showing off my Charlie Brown dance move and banging my Tambourine. I love music across the board. I love board games, puzzles, word searches and word games. Love movies in the theater or drive in, comedy show, musicals. I love trying new things. Im also love naps and wholeheartedly believe doing nothing is something.
I am a Brat!! I am an attention slut! I am a Switch with more Domme experience (I have 20 years of experience), I have an insatiable oral kink and I thrive off of respecting Boundaries! Im also heavy on consent
I know the difference between a Dom and a person claiming to be a Dom!
I value All relationship types, I build friendships. I am here to find people to hang out with, go to munchies and events.
I'm looking for genuine friends.
Friends talk, the benefit is there may be sex vs with a platonic friend there isn't. Friends get to know each other, they are kind and considerate to each other. If that is only privilege to commited labeled relationships. If you're going to get weird out by kindness compassion, not capable of reciprocating, flirting, attention, affection, nor respecting boundaries. This will not work.
I do not like riddles, playing with words, guessing games. I also don't deal with scorness, I'm not the one to hurt you.
I love direct communication, if you're too busy and only show affection or just flirt or contact when you're ready for sex, then I'm not the friend for you.
If you're controlling or jealous type, this won't work.
I love learning. I am a fan of meaningful conversations. I am an extrovert I love people and learning about their experiences and perspectives.
I'm a huge advocate of reciprocation and consent. I don't believe in forcing connections; i prefer organic interactions.
Super chill, heavy on my boundaries. Go to attitude is never disrespect. Just super direct and know my needs and want.
However I have 0 tolerance for disrespect. If you're not trying to be my friend. You won't get into my pants!